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Someone told me once that love was easy. “Easy?” I said, “How so?” I was told if it doesn’t come easy than it has to go. I thought long and hard many times about that expression, finally came to the conclusion after many fall-outs that love, sure it will come easy at first most of the time. But the more you love the harder you fall, the more you care about the person the worse you are about the feelings you posses such as; feeling angry or confused when the person you are falling for consorts to talking in a flirtatious way with the opposite sex, and how you find yourself smiling but inside your wondering what they feel about this other person and how you should act.
Now it can be quite confusing for the fact that just maybe two months ago you were not experiencing this jealousy and also wondering if it is right to feel this way. You may think that if your not careful you could give this person that you care about the wrong impression, that you’re a raging lunatic and he/she may be in for another fatal attraction.
I myself have had these feelings and in my case a few times I have scared off the person I cared for. But in my situation I did go a little over board and now that I am not in those situations and haven’t been for a long time I see were I went wrong and why I acted so silly.
One of the reasons why I developed a possession is because I was afraid. Now that may sound funny but I was; I was afraid to get close to someone to feel I needed this person around, and in the same sense when and if I did start needing this person I was afraid they would leave, so before I could even get a chance to find out if it would work I would scare them off. I always felt that I would fall in love and it wouldn’t work, there for it didn’t.
I really feel that to really love someone truly you must put your fears aside because in order to love someone you must give them your whole self, and fear alone will swallow 95% of the true you into a great hole and you will not think clearly. Your words may come out strange, you may feel a little moody and find yourself wondering instead of enjoying the moment you have with this person. Even if you find the relationship falters at least you gave it your all and therefore you were able to recognize if this relationship didn’t work because it just wasn’t meant to be or because you were not being true to the other person by not being true to yourself.
Now there is another point I have to initiate and that is nothing stays the same it just doesn’t. It never has and it never will the only thing that is constant is change and change it’s self. I have many friends male and female that speak to me on the subject of a sour relationship and why they feel it turned out that way, I hear “ It used to be so good, and now no butterflies, not a single spark when we kiss, if we kiss ”. It is really a sad thing when you find yourself wondering what happened to the fun and the romance, and it could really be a number of things. One of them maybe being that you just got to comfortable, maybe you stopped listening, or maybe the communication on both ends failed; and if you don’t have communication there is no point to a relationship now is there.
I am no expert on relationships I rarely know anyone who is but I do know this. Sometimes it’s just not meant to be, and sometimes we just need to open ourselves up and try harder if it is something we have control over like ourselves and our actions.
Every relationship is meant to be in one way or another, whether it’s meant to be as a friend an ally or a lover, sometimes we are blessed with someone for only a short amount of time and therefore we must take advantage of every moment.
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